Endurance is nobler than strength,
and
patience than beauty.
-- John Ruskin
It's hard
to keep from trying to control the lives of
others,
especially
in a family.
We can
learn from the man whose friend drove twenty miles
to and from work on the freeway every day.
"How can
you do it?" he asked.
"I've
tried, and I can't go a mile in such traffic
without screaming at the crazy drivers who cut in,
go too slow, change lanes.
Nobody
listens.
I'd lose
my mind if I had to do it your way." His friend
replied, "Your trouble is trying to drive every
car around you.
I relax
and drive only one car -- my own."
We have
only our own lives to live, and this is usually
enough to keep us busy.
If we pay
too much attention to how others live, we will
neglect ourselves.
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Volunteers
are the only human beings
on the
face of the earth who reflect
this nation's
compassion, unselfish caring,
patience,
and
just plain loving one another.
-- Erma
Bombeck
The
most precious time we will ever have we give away
by doing volunteer chores to help others get more
out of life.
There is
no material wage for this kind of work, but a host
of emotional rewards.
The height
of volunteer giving is doing an act of kindness or
love so quietly that none but ourselves will ever
know we had a part in it.
What great
humility this can bring to us, who live in a world
where selfish people often insist on credit for
all their deeds -- often things they had nothing
to do with.
All we
need do is think of all we have received without
deserving it or asking for it.
By taking
part in the giving end of life, we find the true
wealth of our own generosity.
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If you must
love your neighbor as yourself,
it is at
least as fair to love yourself
as your
neighbor.
--
Nicholas De Chamfort
We
sometimes find it difficult to accept a
compliment.
We may
feel we don't deserve such attention, and point
out reasons why the compliment is untrue.
When we
act this way, we show a lack of love for
ourselves.
God
teaches us to love our neighbors as ourselves.
Yet,
before we can love anyone, we must believe we are
worthy of the same love.
No
creature is undeserving of love, God reminds us of
that.
We can
stop hiding behind feelings of unworthiness.
There's
nothing stopping us but ourselves.
Sometimes
it takes courage to say thank you when we get a
compliment.
Let's
exercise that courage, and each time we do, we'll
find our self-love growing.
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