Give
to the world all that you have,
And the best will
come back to you.
-- Mary Ainge
De Vere
When we
share something of our own with a friend, it
gives both of us a special feeling.
Generosity
blesses the giver as much as the receiver.
Sometimes
we feel selfish, wanting to hoard all our treats
or treasures.
But when
we secretly hide them away, we cheat even
ourselves from enjoying them.
Giving
love and friendship to others works in just the
same way.
When we
express love and kindness to others, we feel
more love toward ourselves.
Though
we may not understand just how it works, we can
be certain it does.
The more
of anything we give away to others, the greater
our own rewards will be.
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I take it that what all men are
really
after is some form of,
perhaps only some
formula of, peace.
--
James Conrad
When
snow drifts quietly down on a winter evening,
the hush of nature brings a great sense of
peace.
Each of
us has known times like this.
Many of
these times did not depend on conditions like
snow, or soft music.
When we
are able to keep a quiet center within
ourselves, we are truly in tune with the spirit.
Peace of
the heart comes from a Power greater than
ourselves, and from the faith that all of us,
and all that happens to us, are part of a great
plan.
Just as
the snow falls softly, without fear, without
regard for whether it will land on a tree bough
or in the street, we, too, can live our lives
with peaceful acceptance of whatever comes
along, knowing it comes to us naturally and from
God.
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I'll walk
where my own nature would be leading --
It
vexes me to choose another guide. . . .
--
Emily Bront?
We
journey across many intersections in our
lives.
Some may
point in two directions, while others lead off
in several.
Our
choice of direction can be difficult, especially
when our friends choose a road we know to be
dangerous.
When
this happens, we can choose to go our own way
without them.
If they
begin to tease and taunt us about our decisions,
may we remember that they are as scared as we
were about their friends' reaction.
We are
not, after all, living for someone else.
If we
would be leaders, we can be assured that true
leadership comes from following our own
directions with confidence that it's right for
us, not from fear of losing others'
company.
We can
let others live their own lives without us, if
their direction is not for us.
We can
walk away with pride, satisfied in the knowledge
that we refused to allow other peoples' fears
change our decisions.
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