Only people who have joyfully accepted
themselves
can take all the risks and
responsibilities
of being themselves.
-- John Powell
If we have
ever gone to school with a black eye, we know how
embarrassing it can be. We feel self-conscious and
ill at ease. Friends come up to us one after
another to ask how we got it.
We may
want to stay away from people until the eye is
better.
All of us
have things about ourselves we have a hard time
accepting. It doesn't have to be as unusual as a
black eye.
We may
think we're too big, too little, too slow, not
good readers, not good looking enough, or not
popular enough.
We may
need to talk about these things with someone else,
so these bits of ourselves we don't accept won't
limit our freedom to grow.
By talking
to another, we may find those traits aren't
noticed by anyone but ourselves.
We may
also find that what we once thought of as weak
points can be turned to strengths.
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Believe
that life is worth living,
and
your belief will help create the fact.
--
William James
Before
Orville and Wilbur Wright ever flew the first
airplane at Kitty Hawk, they believed flight was
possible.
They had a
picture of it in their minds.
The first
step in creating anything is to be able to picture
it in our minds. If we can picture it as a
possibility, we can work to make it happen.
When we
were small, we dreamed a thousand dreams about
what could happen in our lives. Anything, even
magical things, seemed like they could happen, and
our world was full of visions.
That part
of us that believes wonderful, magical things can
happen is still in us.
It may
have been beaten down for a while, but it is still
there waiting to help us seek the wonderful,
lovely, and good things in life.
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I
wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields
that
it kisses them so gently.
--
Lewis Carroll
In
different times and places, clouds can produce
snowflakes, raindrops, or even hailstones.
Each one
seems to have its own purpose and mood as it falls
from the sky.
The
snowflake is the lightest of these, and so it
falls slowly and softly. Rainfall can be soft or
hard. It sometimes feels angry, almost cleansing.
No matter
how thick the snowfall is, it is still soft. We
can rarely hear it land.
It
covers the world in a peaceful white. If we look
closely, we can see that each small snowflake is
unique.
Like the
snowflakes, each of us has a unique design.
Perhaps
what we can learn from the snowflakes is how to
gently touch the lives and growing things around
us.
Times of
anger and rain are necessary, but a soft snowfall
brings peace to all humanity.
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Copyright
© 2024 Hazelden Betty
Ford Foundation. All rights reserved. from the
book Today's Gift
Lighthouse image Copyright © Pixabay
Dividers from Gran Gran's
Graphics (dead link 07/28/2011)
The Rose image
Copyright © Carl
Lundgren
So Tired Wings image
Copyright © Brita
Seifert
Water image
Copyright © Carl
Lundgren
( I had the pleasure of
meeting Carl and his wife Michelle at the Tempe Art
Festival in December 2001.
It was cool to see
some of Carl's original artwork and to purchase prints of
Radiance and Impudence. )
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