We shall not cease
from exploration,
And the end of all
our exploring
Will be to arrive
from where we started
And know the place
for the first time.
-- T. S. Eliot
We spend
much of our lives looking forward to milestones we
hope will mark our passage into wisdom -- that time and place
when once and for all we will know all there is to
know.
When I am
thirteen, I'll be grown up, we say. When I am
sixteen, eighteen, 21, drive a car, graduate,
marry, write a book, own a house, find a job, or
retire; then I'll be grown up.
When we
seek complete transformation, mere insight is
disappointing.
We
find we don't know all there is to know -- not at
thirteen or 35 or 80. We are still growing
up.
The baby,
the child, the younger person each of us was
yesterday is still with us; we continue to love,
hate, hurt, grieve, startle, delight, feel.
There is
no magic moment of lasting enlightenment, simply a
series of fleeting moments lived one at a time
each day.
They bring
us home to who we've always been.
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No
life is so hard that you can't make it
easier
by the way you take it.
--
Ellen Glasgow
Jimmy and Karen were out catching insects for
their science class. Jimmy had caught a gray moth
and Karen a monarch butterfly.
"My moth
sure isn't very pretty," Jimmy said as he looked
at the two insects. "Now I'll have to catch
something else."
"Oh, but
it is," said Karen. "See what a fat body your moth
has compared to my butterfly, and it's got fuzzies
on its wings."
"You're
right," said Jimmy, beginning to smile at his
moth. "I was almost going to let him go."
How many
times in the past have we taken just a quick look
at something before rejecting it?
Often,
simply because a thing isn't quite what we
expected, we don't give ourselves a chance to
discover what it is that makes that thing
beautiful.
There is a
secret beauty in everything, even ourselves.
When we
take the time to seek it out in other people and
things, especially those that have disappointed
us, that beauty is reflected in us, too.
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Go
rich in poverty. Go rich in poetry.
-- May
Sarton
Poetry
lets us put the beauty of nature -- the clouds,
the flowers, the waterfall -- into words.
Poetry
lets us see that things which appear to be
opposites may just be different ways of looking at
the same thing.
How can we
be rich in poverty?
Wealth in
poverty means finding pleasure in simplicity,
finding the core of what's important, and saying
it in the fewest possible words.
We are so
often caught up in the pursuit of more -- more
money, more toys, more prestige, that we forget
how satisfying the simple things can be.
Think of
the beauty of a sunset or a walk by the river, the
fun of playing in a sandbox or swinging on the
swings in the park, or in simply taking time to
get something done the right way, without
hurry.
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