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Love is something if
you give away,
you end up having more.
-- Malvina
Reynolds
The other
side of giving is taking.
Many of us
were brought up to believe that it's not okay to take,
so we diminish admiration that people give
us.
"Oh, this
old rag, I got it at a garage sale for next to
nothing."
This
response to a compliment can take away the joy of
giving it from the person who admired the way we
looked.
Giving
needs taking to complete it.
We can
keep the cycle of generosity going by taking
gracefully.
A world
without those who take would be unbalanced.
When
someone gives us love, appreciation, or a gift, we
can show our real pleasure with a simple thank
you, and stop thinking we don't deserve it.
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All
acts performed in the world
begin in the
imagination.
--
Barbara Grizzuti Harrison
We
use our imaginations to plan how we're going to
build a model car or plane, rearrange the furniture
in our rooms, even dress for a special
party.
The
imagination is like a big piece of drawing paper
on which we sketch the way we want something to
look.
When we
don't know just how to begin a task, the
imagination gets us started.
It's like
having the directions for playing a new
game.
Dreams
about the future, where we want to go, the jobs we
want to have, are made more real when we "draw"
them in our minds.
The
imagination gives us courage, too.
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I
never found the companion that was
so
companionable as solitude.
--
Henry David Thoreau
One of the
greatest gifts of our lives is the ability to
enjoy solitude.
Many
of us are unable to enjoy this gift.
We are too
busy -- busy with work, with friends, with
entertainment.
When we
slow down, we find out we can feel peaceful when
we are alone.
For most
of us, solitude is ordinary -- we each find our
private place and take up our favorite activities:
fishing, sewing, writing, building models, making
pictures.
These
simple activities are so much fun it's hard to
figure out why it took us so long to calm down and
enjoy them. Our dreams may be quite ordinary. We
can learn how to find them.
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