Being entirely
honest with oneself is a good exercise.
-- Sigmund
Freud
The
truth is our friend. It is a rough and humble
kind of friend -- but a friend nonetheless.
Each
of us will need to learn to spend time with this
friend because it is one that is not easy to
escape.
It is
always turning up when we least expect
it. The truth about ourselves is hard to
avoid.
It seems
to knock at our door until we let it in.
Perhaps
we have played the game of hide and seek
sometime in our lives.
Sometimes
we tell little lies about ourselves to impress
others, or we act in ways that, deep down, we
know are not really the way we want to be.
We can
never be comfortable this way.
We know
what it is like to hide and try to keep from
being found.
The
truth about us is an expert player. It seeks us
out until we put our arms around it and welcome
it.
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Nature,
the Gentlest Mother,
is
Impatient of no Child . . .
--
Emily Dickinson
When a girl sits on the seashore, the waves do
not try to slap her around.
When a
boy
wanders alone
in a field, the sky does not accuse him of
talking back.
When a
man is alone in the woods, does the earth nag
him for failing once more?
And when
a woman is alone in the park, does the wind
whisper behind her back?
Nature
never blames or condemns: she gives us freedom
of thought and plenty of space.
Nature's
ways are proven and true; she lets us grow at
our own rate.
Nature
brings us sleep, dawn, new days; she is full of
new life.
We
are a part of nature, and everything we do is
part of it.
We can
find comfort in this knowledge, if we take the
time to remember it when we are feeling bad.
Nature is always willing to share its
serenity.
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Work is
love made visible.
--
Kahlil Gibran
Family
members show love and concern for others
through their work.
Parents
might build a bookcase or prepare the
meals.
Children
might help by emptying the wastebaskets.
All are
showing love through what they do.
In our
lives together, our work is an important way of
saying I love you.
We will
still want to give them lots of hugs and
kisses.
But our
work shows how much we care, and who is
important to us.
Our work
around the house is an investment. It makes a
home for all of us, constructed of visible
love.
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