Nothing is more
difficult than competing with a myth.
-- Francoise
Giroud
Sometimes
we think we need to try and be something we're
not.
Maybe we
feel pressure from friends to behave or dress
like someone else.
All we
need to do is remember when we were younger and
dressed in our parents' clothes and shoes.
We
pretended to be grownups, and it was fun for a
while.
Then the
huge shoes on our feet grew clumsy and
uncomfortable and the mountain of rolled-up
sleeves kept falling down and getting in the
way.
Soon we
grew tired of the game and stopped
pretending.
Today
when we start feeling the pressure to be someone
else, let's remember how hard it is to play a
role that doesn't fit us.
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Only
with winter patience
can we
bring
the deep
desired,
long-awaited
spring.
--
Anne Morrow Lindbergh
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Family
life requires patience. We probably realized
that a long time ago.
The
Greek origin of the word patience is pathos,
which means "suffering."
In our
lives together, we often suffer.
Life
is full of bumps and scrapes, both physical and
emotional.
In our
search for greater family unity and harmony we
need to realize that we will not be able to
escape all suffering.
This
is why we need patience.
It
is a form of love.
When we
suffer the bumps and scrapes and still have
faith something good will come of it, we are
living out our love.
From
this winter-patience we will surely find a
reward.
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Muddy
water,
let stand,
becomes clear.
--
Lao-tzu
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A group
of friends went swimming one day and one of them
lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.
Everyone
started diving from different directions to find
it until there was so much mud and sand stirred
up that no one could see anything.
Finally,
they decided to clear the water.
They
waited silently on the edge of the shore for the
mud from all their activity to settle. When it
finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and
picked up the ring.
When we
are confused about something in our lives, we
will often hear answers and advice from all
directions. Our friends will tell us one thing
and our families another, until we feel pretty
well mixed up.
If we
look away from our problem and let patience and
time do their work, the mud inside us will
settle and clear.
Our
answer will become visible, like the glimmer of
silver in the water.
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Betty Ford Foundation. All rights reserved. from
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Walk Away Renee music
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Banke
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Walk Away Renee
Written by Bob Calilli,
Michael Lookofsky & Tony Sansone
Sung by The Left
Banke
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And when I see the sign
that points one way
The lot we used to pass
by every day
Just walk away Renee
You won't see me follow
you back home
The empty sidewalks on my
block are not the same
You're not to blame
From deep inside the
tears I'm forced to cry
From deep inside the pain
I chose to hide
Just walk away Renee
You won't see me follow
you back home
Now as the rain beats
down upon my weary eyes
For me it cries
(Instrumental Interlude)
Just walk away Renee
You won't see me follow
you back home
The empty sidewalks on my
block are not the same
You're not to blame
Your name and mine inside
a heart upon a wall
Still finds a way to
haunt me though they're so small
Just walk away Renee
You won't see me follow
you back home
The empty sidewalks on my
block are not the same
You're not to blame
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