If I cry tears let
them wash away your fears --
make a rainbow of
love for you.
-- Thom Klika
It takes
both sun and rain to make a rainbow in the sky.
The rainbow is a rare and beautiful thing --
each color brilliant beside the other.
Rain
falls to earth like the tears we all shed
sometimes.
Sunlight
shines like the happiness we find inside when we
feel peaceful.
The
colors of the rainbow are like all the different
feelings we have.
Let's
say red is anger and green is fear and orange is
joy and violet is contentment.
All
these feelings create a whole person, in the
same way that all these colors make the whole
rainbow.
We
become more colorful people as we learn to
express all our emotions.
A person
who is learning to share feelings radiates the
same kind of beauty as a rainbow in the
sky.
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I'm a trader at
heart. . .
except that I don't
like trades that come out equally --
that's too much like
borrowing.
I'd rather trade a
strong hand for a patient ear
or a story for a
meal: anything that keeps things turning over.
-- Gordon Bok
There is
an old saying that there are just two kinds of
people in the world: givers and takers. Those of
us who are givers delight in it.
We have
a buck to lend when someone is broke, a kind
word when they're down, a helping hand when they
need it.
But
sometimes we givers are uncomfortable when we're
on the receiving end.
We brush
off thanks and gifts and help, even when they're
needed or deserved.
Those of
us who are takers, on the other hand, know how
to receive graciously what others have to give;
we know how to ask for what we need.
Often,
however, we don't know how to give.
We may
be afraid our gifts will be wrong or rejected or
laughed at.
We can
all strive to become traders, people who have
learned how to both give and receive.
We each
have the capacity to give what we have freely
and to ask, gratefully, for what we don't
have.
That is
the greatest gift of all.
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A tree
grown in a cave does not bear fruit.
--
Kahlil Gibran
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A
tree planted in a cave would soon be stopped
short in its growth. There would be no room for
it to grow tall or blossom.
It would
only grow so far and then would grow no bigger.
Fear can
be like a cave. We sometimes become fearful for
the same reason we might enter a cave, looking
for protection.
But fear
protects us from the new ideas and behavior we
need in order to grow.
Fear can
keep us huddling inside it, watching life's
opportunities pass by. When fear threatens to
enclose us, we can take a deep breath and begin
to do what we are afraid of doing.
The cave
will fade away as we step out into the sun,
fresh air, and storms that are a part of
growing.
What
fear can I overcome today?
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