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Take
care of yourself my darling
And I'll take care
of me
Live your
loneliness knowing
That we can both be
free.
--
Mary Lee George
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Loneliness
is something inside us. It's not caused by other
people's behavior,
though what others
do may let us know we are feeling lonely.
We have
all experienced being alone and really enjoying it
-- walking by the river or singing a song we
like.
Feeling
lonely is when we feel like nobody cares about us
or wants to be with us.
Sometimes
we need to give ourselves permission to feel
lonely and know that we are okay no matter what we
are feeling.
Other
times it may be wise to check with others if our
feelings are true.
We can ask
our mother if she cares about us or ask a friend
if he wants to play, and be open to the answer.
When we
feel lonely, we often ignore what others do or say
that doesn't agree with what we believe to be
true.
The
important thing to remember is that we are okay no
matter what choice we make.
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The sun's
the lifegiver. . .
I talk to
it like you would to a god.
--
Peter Firth
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Having a
Power greater than ourselves to believe in is like
knowing the sun is in the sky. There are days when
the sun shines with a brilliance that lights up
everything around us -- tree branches, snowflakes,
the faces of our friends.
When a
seed is planted, it is the sun's warmth that
invites it out of the ground to grow into a fruit
or flower.
The sun is
the center the earth rotates around. The sun gives
warmth and light to the earth, sometimes in ways
we don't always notice.
There are
days we do not see the sun -- it is obscured by
thick clouds.
Yet even
on these days, we know the sun's rays still reach
the earth and nourish her.
God
nourishes and warms our lives the same way the sun
does the earth.
Some days
we easily see the presence of such a power in our
lives, and other days we cannot see past the
clouds.
But God
gives our lives a light-filled center and
nourishes us even on quiet cloudy days.
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I never
lose sight of the fact
that just
being is fun.
-- Katharine
Hepburn
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The
first good news each day is that we wake up. We
are breathing.
Our heats
are beating, our minds working.
The
adventure of living begins.
What does
the day hold in store?
We have no
way of knowing what surprises lie in wait for us
today.
We may
look forward, not just to the expected, but to the
unexpected.
Whom shall
we meet? What will we see?
What will
we learn? How will we be entertained?
What
chances to help others will come our way? What
chances to love and be loved?
Now that
our eyes are opened to today's beauty, let us
remain alert for new sights.
Let us cry
when sad, smile when touched, and laugh at what is
funny in a whole new lifetime before us.
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