Inch by inch, row by
row
Someone
bless these seeds I sow. . .
'Til the rain
comes tumblin' down.
-- David Mallett
We plant a
garden with faith, never knowing exactly what the
harvest will bring. We
end to those aspects of gardening which we
have some control over, planting good seeds in
rich soil, in straight rows, the right distance
apart.
We weed
and fertilize, and we tie up our tomato
plants.
We may
pray for rain, but we never know if we'll get too
much or too little.
We can't
control the wind or rabbits or bugs or the
strongest strains of weeds.
Yet most
of us don't let these things keep us from
planting.
With this
same sort of faith we can tend to ourselves.
Though
we don't know what each day will bring, we can
plant the seeds in ourselves to meet most
anything.
We can
rise each morning determined to give what we have.
We can't
plant the seeds for others, and we can't keep the
storms from coming.
The beauty
is, we don't have to.
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Hurried and worried
until we're buried
And
there's no curtain call,
Life's a very
funny proposition, after all.
-- George M.
Cohan
Often,
when we involve ourselves in a whirlwind of
activities, plans, and expectations, we push
ourselves so hard that we don't derive any
satisfaction from success.
We need to
face our limitations. We can't do everything we
want. Even when we can do a great deal, if we
overextend ourselves, take on too much, we will
not enjoy ourselves, and there is no reason not to
enjoy our work.
Our
activities are part of what we are. If we choose
to live in a frantic hurry, worrying about the
next moment instead of this one, we'll miss life
entirely. Part of self-knowledge is learning to
pace ourselves to our own speed, learning to set
goals we can attain for each day.
When we do
this, we can say, "Now that I've completed this, I
don't have to do one more thing to feel
worthwhile."
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In grief,
healing helps us make peace
with the
meaning of death, which cannot be understood
except as an
unknown part of life.
-- Alla
Bozarth-Campbell
It is a
sad occasion when we must say goodbye to a loved
one or pet who has died.
But grief
is the only way we can come to understand our
losses, and sharing grief helps us experience
it more fully.
Perhaps we
wish to grieve for something else we've lost, like
fading youth, a job, a possession, or a habit we
had come to enjoy.
It's
natural to feel grief over things like this,
too.
We can
share stories and good memories with other
grievers, and give free reign to our tears.
Sometimes
it seems the more we talk, the sadder we feel
about our losses, but when we share these feelings
with others, we turn our losses into gain.
We heal
ourselves, pay tribute to those we grieve for, and
share an intimate sense of loss with someone
else.
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