I meant to do my
work today
But a brown
bird sang in an apple tree,
And a butterfly
flitted across the field
And all the
leaves were calling me.
-- Richard
LeGallienne
The
harried hen scurried about her house, trying to
put it in order. Some friends she hadn't seen for
years were due to arrive later that day, and she
wanted everything perfect for them.
In a
flurry, she made the bed, put away the dishes, and
scrubbed the floor.
Oh dear,
she thought in dismay, I meant to wash the sheets
today. Frantically, she flew back to the bedroom
and tore the sheets from the made bed.
Just then,
a neighbor arrived and stood at hen's door,
watching her anxiously rush about. "Dear hen," he
said in a patient loving tone, for he was quite
fond of her, "You will never enjoy your visit if
you continue to race about.
Come. Sit
and rest and tell me of these friends. Have you
any snapshots?"
The hen
did as her neighbor had suggested, and soon her
friends arrived to find her relaxed, refreshed,
and warm with the memories of them.
|
Courage is
resistance to fear,
mastery of fear
not absence of fear.
-- Mark Twain
It is not
unusual to feel afraid. It is unusual, however, to
hear anyone admit to feeling afraid.
Sometimes
we think there are some people who are so cool and
calm that they never feel afraid.
This may
make us think we're not as good because we know
how often we feel afraid.
This is
why it is important to think about what courage
really is.
It is not
the absence of fear.
Courage is
not letting fear stop us from doing what we need
to do.
We might
have to get up in front of a group to give a
speech.
We could
give in to our fear and not give the speech, or we
could admit our fear to those who love us, and
then go ahead and do the best we can.
To go
ahead in the face of fear is courage.
|
"The
horror of that moment," the King went on,
"I shall
never forget." "You will, though," the Queen said,
"if you don't
make a memorandum of it."
-- Lewis
Carroll
Crises
come in many forms. When we are in the middle of
any kind of crisis, we may feel like we have
fallen into a deep hole.
We may see
no way out, and begin to feel hopeless and
overwhelmed by the size and darkness of the
hole.
Yet we are
not alone.
An animal
caught in a hole would cry out until someone came
along and helped it out.
We, too,
can call out for help -- to our Higher Power and
to the important people in our lives.
We can
learn to trust that, with the help of our friends
and our Higher Power, we will be able to crawl out
of our holes.
With
trust, we will climb out of our crises and be
healed with the passage of time.
Such holes
are a part of our landscape, ...
... yet
every time we will be able to climb out and walk,
leaving the darkness behind us.
|
_______________
Copyright ©
2024 Hazelden Betty
Ford Foundation. All rights reserved.
from the book Today's Gift
Calming image
Copyright © Pinterest
The Ascend image
Copyright © Henning
Ludvigsen
Graphics from Gran Gran's
This and That Page (dead link 2002)
Sleeping Woman
image Copyright © Pixabay
Endless Journey image
Copyright © Wild
Dreamer
|