I've never sung
anything
that I wasn't
ready to sing.
--
Claudia Schmidt
Most of us
are curious about the "olden days" before we were
born.
We ask our
parents what life was like when they were
kids, what they did, what they looked like,
and what they thought about. But most of us, even
those who are parents ourselves, have probably
never asked our parents, "Were you ready to go to
school, to grow up, to get married, to get a job,
to have me?"
So often
we are afraid to take even a small new step,
afraid of change. We feel so alone in our
uncertainty. From our point of view, it often
looks as though everybody's ready except us.
Perhaps
another way to look at it is that, for most of our
lives, readiness really isn't much of an issue.
Were we ready to be born? Were we ready to walk,
to read, to sing? Maybe we were; maybe not.
What's
important is what we did, not what we were ready
to do. For life is mostly a matter of jumping in
feet first shouting, "Here I come, ready or
not!"
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They were the
first . . . self-created people
in the history of the world.
And their manners
were their own business.
And so were their politics.
And so, but ten times so, were
their souls.
-- Archibald MacLeish
There once
was a child named Yemaya. Even before she could
walk or talk, her mother introduced her to the
trees. Yemaya touched them and they accepted her.
They told
her she was wonderful and she knew it was true.
As she grew
up, Yemaya occasionally met people who said unkind
things to her.
When this
happened, she went back to her trees, who
continued to tell her she was just fine.
She
couldn't understand what was wrong with those who
were mean to her.
Whenever
they appeared and insisted on being mean, she
pretended what they said was an arrow that sailed
right by as she stepped out of the way.
We can do
the same.
What others
say or think is part of them and their lives, not
ours.
When we are
wise enough to let go of things that don't belong
to us, we will find our own treasures.
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My true god is
always with me.
I am learning to
trust myself. . .
-- Joan Parsons
Sometimes
a book we read at a very young age stays with us
our whole lives.
One girl
loved Heidi more than any other book. She always
thought about the grandfather's hut. It was a
special place in the world -- with the fresh
mountain air, the spring flowers, the winter fire
on the hearth.
But the
part she carried with her to adulthood was the
part about the grandfather pouring goat's milk
into a bowl and telling Heidi to drink it all up
so she could grow to be healthy and happy.
Now that
girl is a woman. Sometimes, when she wants to feel
taken care of, she pours herself a bowl of milk.
Then she sits down, picks up the bowl with two
hands, and drinks out of it like Heidi. She feels
comforted and connected to the universe.
The
private rituals we discover in childhood can
befriend us all our lives, if we let them.
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