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It seems
to me that I have always been
waiting
for something better --
sometimes
to see the best I had
snatched
from me.
--
Dorothy Reed Mendenhall
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Gratitude
for what is prepares us for the blessings just
around the corner. What is so necessary to
understand is that our wait for what's around
the corner closes our eyes to the joys of the
present moment.
We have
only the 24 hours ahead of us. In fact, all we
can be certain of having is the moment we are
presently experiencing.
And it
is a gift to be enjoyed.
There is
no better gift just right for us than this
moment, at this time.
We can,
each of us, look back on former days, realizing
that we learned too late the value of a friend
or an experience.
Both are
now gone.
With
practice and a commitment to ourselves, we can
learn to reap the benefits of today, hour by
hour.
When we
detach from the present and wait for tomorrow,
or next week, or look to next year, we are
stunting our spiritual growth.
Life can
only bless us now, one breath at a time.
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So much to
say. And so much
not to say!
Some things are
better left unsaid. But so
many unsaid
things can
become
a burden.
--
Virginia Mae Axline
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The
occasions are many when we'd like to share a
feeling, an observation, perhaps even a
criticism with someone. The risk is great,
however.
She
might be hurt, or he might walk away, leaving us
alone.
Many
times, we need not share our words directly.
Weighing
and measuring the probable outcome and asking
for some inner guidance will help us decide when
to speak up and when to leave things
unsaid.
But if
our thoughts are seriously interfering with our
relationships, we can't ignore them for long.
Clearing
the air is necessary sometimes, and it freshens
all relationships.
Deciding
when to take the risk creates
consternation.
But
within our quiet spaces, we always know when we
must speak up. And the direction will
come.
The
right moment will present itself. And within
those quiet spaces the right words can be
found.
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It is only
the women
whose eyes
have
been washed
clear
with tears
who get
the broad
vision that
makes them
little
sisters to
all the
world.
--
Dorothy Dix
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The
storms of our lives benefit us like the storms
that hit our towns and homes and wash clean the
air we breathe.
Our
storms bring to the surface the issues that
plague us.
Perhaps
we still fear a job with responsibilities.
Perhaps we still struggle with the significant
other persons in our lives.
Possessiveness
is a particular storm that often haunts our
progress.
Storms
force us to acknowledge these liabilities that
continue to stand in our way, and acknowledgment
is the step necessary to letting go.
Recovery
is a whole series of storms, storms that help to
sprout new growth, storms that flush clean our
own clogged drains.
The
peace that comes after a storm is worth singing
about.
Each
storm can be likened to a rung on the ladder to
wholeness, the ladder to full membership in the
healthy human race.
The
storms make climbing tough, but we get strength
with each step. The next storm will be more
easily weathered.
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