It is terribly
amusing
how many different
climates of feeling
one can go
through in a day.
-- Anne Morrow
Lindbergh
When we
travel by canoe down a river we can notice the
changes that take place. In one spot the river is
wide and the water moves slowly.
Around the
next bend the river narrows and the current speeds
up.
Ahead of
us we see rapids waiting to test our skill.
Our
feelings can also change as quickly as the river.
We may
have times in our day when we feel good about
ourselves.
Then, all
of a sudden, someone may tease us about
something.
We begin
to feel like the scared canoeist shooting the
rapids for the first time.
How
wonderful it is to know that we are never given a
test we can't handle, that everything that happens
in our lives is for the sake of our growth, and
that we are watched over at all times by
God.
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Trust takes time.
If you don't invest
it,
then you don't
get it.
-- Anonymous
Trusting
other human beings is like planting a garden.
First we
must choose where to plant -- is the soil healthy,
is it open to sunlight?
We would
not plant seeds on rocks that are hard and
ungiving.
In the
same way, we need to choose friends who are
trustworthy, who are like rich soil open to
planting and sunlight.
Then we
need to plant the seeds of time and care.
If we
share some of our feelings and are welcomed, we
will know it is safe to share more.
We can
share ourselves in our own time -- even a garden
grows slowly, and can take only so much sun and
rain in one day.
Having
trust in someone feeds the spirit.
Trust also
gives us the courage to be beautiful, like the
flowers of our gardens.
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I was
forced to live far beyond
my years
when just a child.
Now I have
reversed the order
and I
intend to remain young indefinitely.
--
Mary Pickford
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We can all
learn to change our lives so the child within each
of us can live in balance with the people we have
become.
We can
learn to give the child a voice, let the child
play, let the child express needs and fears and
pleasures.
We might
look at our old baby pictures for a valuable
lesson.
We
will see pictures of ourselves on rocking horses,
grinning and waving; pictures of ourselves with
our most precious toy -- a crude metal car,
perhaps; pictures of ourselves rolling in the
grass.
The lesson
we learn is that it doesn't take much to make this
child happy -- even today.
We keep
our own happiness safe inside us to call on
whenever we need it, as long as we keep a healthy
relationship with the child within.
When we
nourish the child, we can be assured the child
will also nourish us.
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