The present enshrines the past.
-- Simone de
Beauvoir
Each of
our lives is a multitude of interconnecting
pieces, not unlike a mosaic. What has gone
before, what will come today, are at once and
always entwined.
The past
has done its part, never to be erased. The
present is always a composite.
In
months and years gone by, perhaps we anticipated
the days with dread. Fearing the worst, often we
found it; we generally find that which we fear.
But we can influence the mosaic our experiences
create.
The
contribution today makes to our mosaic can
lighten its shade, can heighten its contrast,
can make bold its design.
What
faces us today? A job we enjoy or one we fear?
Growing pains of our children? Loneliness? How
we move through the minutes, the hours,
influences our perception of future minutes and
hours.
No
moment is inviolate. Every moment is part of the
whole that we are creating.
We are
artists.
We
create our present from influences of our
past.
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Follow your dream
if you stumble, don't
stop
and lose sight of
your goal,
press on to the top.
For only on top
Can we see the whole view.
-- Amanda
Bradley
Today, we
can, each of us, look back on our lives and get a
glimmering of why something happened and how it fit into
the larger mosaic of our lives.
And this
will continue to be true for us.
We have
stumbled.
We sill
stumble.
And we
learn about ourselves, about what makes us stumble
and about the methods of picking ourselves up.
Life is a
process, a learning process that needs those
stumbles to increase our awareness of the steps we
need to take to find our dream at the top.
None of us
could realize the part our stumbling played in the
past.
But now we
see.
When we
fall, we need to trust that, as before, our falls
are "up," not down.
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What we suffer, what
we endure
is done by us, as individuals,
in private.
-- Louise Bogan
Empathy we
can give. Empathy we can find, and it comforts.
Bur our pain, the depth of it, can never be wholly
shared, fully understood, actually realized by
anyone other than ourselves.
Alone,
each of us comes to terms with out grief, our
despair, even our guilt.
Knowing
that we are not alone in what we suffer makes the
difficulties each of us must face easier. We
haven't been singled out, of that we're certain.
Remembering
that our challenges offer us the lessons we need
in the school of life makes them more acceptable.
In time we'll even look eagerly to our challenges
as the real exciting opportunities for which we've
been created.
Suffering
prompts the changes necessary for spiritual
growth.
It pushes
us like no other experience to God -- for
understanding, for relief, for unwavering
security.
It's not
easy to look upon suffering as a gift.
And we
need not fully understand it; however, in time,
its value in our lives will become clear.
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