The fragrance
always stays in the hand
that gives the rose.
-- Hada Bejar
Nothing is more attractive than sharing with
others. No trait will be admired as much as
generosity.
There is no
surer way to gain the respect of friends and
neighbors than to show by what we give that we
care about others.
We can give many
things besides money, shelter, clothing, or food
to those in need.
We can give the
rich person love and understanding that money
can't buy.
We can
sympathize with those who are troubled, even
though they appear wealthier than ourselves.
We can share
experience, strength, and hope with those who
are ill or unhappy.
We can even
share our suffering with others who suffer, and
hold up a light for them on the road to
recovery.
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A
tip-off to an abusive family
system is
a situation in which
nobody
ever apologizes.
-- Karen
Shaud
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When we get a
tip-off, we can open the door to a whole new way
of looking at the world. The tip-off about
apologies can help us learn to have a healthier
family.
It is hard to
apologize, but with practice, it will get
easier.
We are learning
that we can make mistakes, and admit them, and
that other people will accept our apologies. In
the same way, we are learning we can accept
others' apologies.
Apologies are
sometimes hard to make.
It helps to
keep in mind that we make them as much for
ourselves and our own growth as for the person
we apologize to.
We are not
worthless just because we make mistakes, but we
increase our value to ourselves and others by
being able to recognize them and apologize.
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We, too, the
children of the earth,
have our moon phases
all through any year;
the darkness, the
delivery from darkness,
the waxing and
waning.
-- Faith Baldwin
Let us
think, for a moment, about the changes of the
moon. In the beginning of its cycle, it is just
a sliver in the darkness.
Each
night it grows larger until it reaches its full
size.
When the
moon is full and rising, its orange glow fills
the sky. All night its gentle light brightens
everything it touches.
But this
fullness is only part of the life of the moon.
For
a while it grows smaller, then turns its dark
side toward us before reappearing as a sliver
and growing again to fullness.
We are
children of the earth, and we have our different
moods and phases, too.
There
will be periods of darkness when we try to find
our way by the light of the stars.
Again
and again we will grow to our full size, only to
fade and grow again in a new way.
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