I look in the
mirror
through
the eyes of the child that was me.
-- Judy
Collins
The
child within each of us is fragile, but very
much alive, and she interprets our experiences
before we are even conscious of them.
It is
our child who may fear new places, unfamiliar
people, strange situations.
Our
child needs nurturing, the kind she may not have
received in the past.
We can
take her hand, coax her along, let her know she
won't be abandoned.
No new
place, unfamiliar person, or strange situation
need overwhelm her.
It's
quite amazing the strength that comes to us when
we nurture ourselves, when we acknowledge the
scared child within and hold her, making her
secure.
We face
nothing alone. Together, we can face
anything.
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Today was like a
shadow.
It
lurked behind me.
It's now gone
forever.
Why is it
that time is such a difficult thing to befriend?
-- Mary Casey
Each
passing minute is all that we are certain of
having. The choice is ever present to relish the
moment, reaping fully whatever its benefits,
knowing that we are being given just what we
need each day of our lives.
We must
not pass up what is offered today.
Time
accompanies us like a friend, though often a
friend denied or ignored. We can't recapture
what was offered yesterday. It's gone. All that
stands before us is here, now.
We can
nurture the moment and know that the pain and
pleasures offered us with each moment are our
friends, the teachers our inner selves
await.
And we
can be mindful that this time, this combination
of events and people, won't come again.
They are
the gift of the present. We can be grateful.
We miss
the opportunities the day offers because we
don't recognize the experiences as the lesson
designed for the next stage of our development.
The
moment's offerings are just, necessary, and
friendly to our spiritual growth.
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With
each new day I put away the past
and
discover the new beginnings I have been
given.
--
Angela L. Wozniak
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We can't
recapture what is no more. And the minutes or
hours we spend dwelling on what was or should
have been only steal away from all that
presently is. Today stands before us with
promise.
The
opportunities for growth are guaranteed, as is
all the spiritual help we need to handle any
situation the day offers.
If today
offers us a challenge, we can be grateful. Our
challenges are gifts. They mean we are ready to
move ahead to a new awareness, to a new sense of
our womanhood.
Challenges
force us to think creatively; they force us to
turn to others; they demand that we
change.
Without
challenges, we'd stagnate, enjoying life little,
offering life nothing.
We each
are making a special contribution, one that only
we can make, each time we confront a new
situation with courage. Each time we dare to
open a new door.
What we
need to do today is to close the door on
yesterday.
Then we
can stand ready and willing to go forward.
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