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There is
no hope of joy
except in human
relations.
--
Antoine de Saint Exupery
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It is
hard to imagine being really joyful and excited
without our family and friends. We can imagine a
birthday party with no one but us
attending.
Even if
we got many gifts, we would feel empty if there
were no one around to share our excitement with.
Our joy
comes from each other. Even the hard times
furnish us with wonderful memories for later in
life.
We share
the good and the bad, and the rewards of
both.
When our
lives together seem too difficult, when it's too
hard to share, too crowded to think, when there
are too many disagreements, we can find comfort
by looking at one another once again and seeing
all the ways we are truly alike, and what we
share every moment that we sometimes take for
granted -- our food, our thoughts, the very air
we breathe.
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One is happy as
a result of one's own efforts,
tastes, a certain
degree of courage, self-denial to a point,
love of work, and,
above all, a clear conscience.
Happiness is no
vague dream, of that I now feel certain.
-- George
Sand
"We
always go get a hot fudge sundae after the
school choir concert," the girl said. Her
parents laughed because their daughter said
always, and they had only gone to a school choir
concert once.
Then the
parents realized that the girl really had a
great idea.
"Yes,"
the mother said, "we always get a sundae because
we like to make up new traditions. We'll have to
be sure and do it tonight so we don't let the
tradition fall apart before it even gets
started!"
They all
laughed together and started debating which
restaurant had the best hot fudge sundae.
We all
need to have special traditions with our
families. We need celebrations that have nothing
to do with official holidays.
Family
holidays can mean so much more to us sometimes
because they celebrate our shared experiences in
life and become the source of happy memories for
a lifetime.
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The house, the
stars, the desert --
what gives
them their beauty is something
that is invisible.
-- Antoine de
Saint Exupery
What
makes our home special?
Is it
the shape of it, or whether or not we have
carpeting?
Probably
not.
More
likely, what makes us love a place is how we
feel when we are there.
Home is
the familiarity of pleasant smells, activities,
and special people.
And when
we are caught by the beauty of the stars, isn't
it something that happens inside us -- the
breathtaking feeling of joy that is so hard to
describe?
The
beauty of a day or a special person in our lives
cannot be captured, but it can fill and warm our
hearts.
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