. . . ere it
vanishes
Over the margin
After it, follow it,
Follow The Gleam.
-- Alfred,
Lord Tennyson
It is
difficult to find words for the "Gleam" we
pursue. What it is, we are never too sure.
We see
it best in our daily dreams, while we're staring
out a window at nothing at all. Sometimes it
appears between the words in a book; it is
always sure to be there when we sit alone to
write down our own thoughts.
We see
it in the autumn woods, feel its heavy breathing
in ocean waves. It is suddenly a skylark in
flight, a falling leaf, a flower we have
reluctantly picked.
It makes
us feel sad but good. It is always luring us on,
always beautiful.
Is it
love? Success? Peace?
It may
be any or all of these things, and we may find
it through another person, or some talent we
have, or a thing of beauty we stumble upon.
And it
is there within us, always, waiting to be
found.
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Therefore
do not be anxious about tomorrow,
for
tomorrow will be anxious for itself.
--
Matthew 6:34
To
worry about something ahead of time is a waste of time
and energy that could be better spent on living
a full life today.
For
instance, if we spend hours today worrying about
an important test at school tomorrow, we can't
very well concentrate on studying.
And if
we lie awake tonight agonizing over what we
don't know or haven't studied, we're going to be
exhausted tomorrow when we take the test.
Wouldn't
it be much better to focus on doing all we can
today to prepare for the test, and then, knowing
we've done our best, let go of it tonight and
get a good night's sleep?
In fact,
if we do that every day of the year, when a big
test comes along, we'll know we're as ready as
we can be, and won't have a thing to worry
about.
What a
relief it is to know we've done our best today
and every day.
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One will
rarely err if extreme actions
be ascribed to
vanity,
ordinary
actions to habit,
and mean
actions to fear.
--
Friedrich Nietzsche
Sometimes
we begin to believe someone close to us is being
mean deliberately. This may happen when a good
friend suddenly stops inviting us to her
house.
She may
be scared to have others over because her
parents are having problems, or for some other
reason that has nothing to do with us.
But we
often fear that it is because of something we
said or did. We find ourselves becoming scared
and pulling away.
If we
ask for God's help in turning our fear around,
we can overcome it and ask our friend why she
stopped inviting us over.
Most
times we will find that our friend had no idea
her actions affected us the way they did.
We can
then laugh at ourselves for our fears and
applaud ourselves for overcoming them.
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