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What
matters?. . . Only the flicker of light within
the
darkness, the feeling of warmth within the
cold,
the knowledge of love within the void.
-- Joan
Walsh Anglund
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If we
were lost at sea, surrounded by darkness pierced
only by one distant blinking light, we would
follow that light.
As we
followed it, it would become clearer and
brighter until it brought us safely to
land.
Sometimes
when we're depressed, we feel as though we're
lost on a dark sea.
But
there is always a flicker of light for us.
It may
be prayer, or the love of a special
friend.
When we
see that light, we need to move toward
it. Whatever brings us hope is like that
flicker of light. The more we seek it, the
clearer and brighter the light will
become.
When we
are cold and our bodies begin to numb, we must
keep moving. Movement will keep us alive.
When our
emotions are numb, we need people or things or
places that will warm our hearts.
When no
one else is around, hot baths or a favorite
treat can bring the warmth of our own self-love
into our lives when we need it the most.
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Friends are people
who help you
be more yourself,
more the person
you are
intended to be.
-- Merle
Shain
Sometimes
a teacher, sometimes a neighbor, almost always
our moms and dads
encourage
us to try new activities or to improve our
schoolwork, sports, drawing, or gardening.
Because
they are our friends, they want us to be the
best we can be.
Not
everyone knows how to be a friend.
Some
people only criticize, and never praise.
People
who never encourage or praise us are usually
unhappy with their own achievements.
They
don't mean us harm.
Perhaps
they just need a friend, too.
Not only
do we each need friends to help us grow, we need
to be friends to others.
To
encourage and praise those who need it will help
us in return.
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There is
surely a piece of divinity in us,
something
that was before the elements. . .
--
Sir Thomas Browne
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One
definition of divinity in the dictionary is
"supreme excellence." It also means "god-like
character" and "divine nature."
Doesn't
that describe someone we love? When we are in
love with someone, we see only the best of that
person -- it's impossible to see anything else. That person is
"divine," we say, perfect for us, because he or
she loves us and is lovable.
Each one
of us has a part that is divine. We see it
occasionally in others, and they see it in us
when they love us.
We can
draw on that divine part of every person for
strength and hope and courage and faith and
love.
There is
wonderful, mysterious beauty in all of us, even
when we behave badly.
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