. . . but time
and chance happeneth to them all.
-- Ecclesiastes
Life,
director of the comedy, always lets things get a
little out of hand.
We all
know what would be normal and right, but the right
horse sometimes finishes last in the race, and the
jerk has all the money.
The wise
people, like us, are ignored by all, and the good
woman gets in trouble with the law.
The saint
cheats on his income tax, but he never gets caught
the way the needy ones like us do, and the worst
sinners get saved in the nick of time, while the
fittest sometimes just drop dead.
If all the
best laid plans go wrong, maybe we are meant to
learn that such important things aren't so
important, after all.
If the
skies are custard pies waiting to plop down on our
hopeful faces, maybe it is best to accept the
gift, count it a blessing, and lick our chops.
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Look, the wind vane
fluttering in the autumn breeze
Takes
hold of certain things that cannot be held.
-- Feng Chih
When we
think we are losing our grip, we have good reason
to look up. Consider the moon suspended in the
sky, how it continues to come and go, follows its natural law, and
never really loses face.
Consider
the sun, the stars, the seasons, how they refuse
to abandon us, to let go of their hold on our
lives. And come closer to home.
We can
marvel at the magic of small efficient things --
the toaster and stove, the light in the room, the
words in a good book that are permanent, faithful,
and clear.
We can
consider how music, without saying a word, still
speaks to us, and how a few friends, maybe miles
away, continue to hang on to the strength of our
small and faithful words.
We can
keep in mind that we are part of a complex and
loving system, and our grip can never be lost.
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A musician
must make music, an artist must paint,
a poet
must write, if he is to be at peace with himself.
What a man can
be, he must be.
-- Abraham
Maslow
The same
is true of a seamstress, carpenter,
homemaker, lawyer, or mechanic.
The
question is, Who and what am I?
What must
I do to be at peace with myself?
What can I
be, for that is what I must be?
A lucky
few of us find the answers to these questions
fairly early in life, and we work to develop into
the people we can be and must be.
We do that
by looking at our deepest desires, and ask what
would bring fulfillment for us.
We
ask what we would enjoy doing most, what we
believe we have the ability to be really good
at.
What is it
that sometimes burns within us to be expressed or
done?
The
answers to what we can be, what we must be, come
from within, through asking ourselves these
questions.
What kind
of a person am I capable of being?
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