He has the right to criticize

It's human to find fault, and we shouldn't be overcome with shame.

However, we hinder our own personal growth every time we quickly criticize another rather than rejoicing that we've been given an additional opportunity to move closer to the person we're being called to become. 

Through the green leaves surrounding a tulip we see hints of yellow or pink or red.

Each day the flowers greet us with their radiant color.

Yet, a sudden frost would wilt and fade the flowers.

Each time we create something new with our talents we are like a young flower opening.

Whether we draw or write or sew or play a musical instrument, all creativity has this in common.

Appreciation from those around us is like sunshine for the flowers.

 Harsh criticism, however, is like the cold air -- it wilts and deadens our desire to create. 

We all need warm encouragement for our endeavors, and we can give as well as receive it.

In this way, creativity can bloom in our homes and our friendships, bringing a garden full of color and delight into our lives.