Fear not that life
shall come to an end,
but
rather fear that it shall never have a beginning.
-- J. H.
Newman
Our
fears lock us up if we let them. They can
prevent us from tasting adventure, from
experiencing new wonders.
We are
often terrified of unknowns and fret about what
might happen if we try something new.
We worry
if new people will like us -- if we'll fit
in. It
is natural to be cautious about the unknown, and
anything new is just that.
But we
can keep our caution from becoming fear by
taking action, with the faith that we never
encounter anything we can't handle in some way.
Unknowns
are merely joys we haven't met.
We hold
the keys to our own cages and can free ourselves
when we use our courage and inner strength to
overcome our fears.
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Being alive is
being creative.
You
need do nothing but affirm your aliveness.
-- Gay Bonner
What
does it mean to be alive?
Does it
mean merely breathing, eating, and moving
around, or is there more to it?
Being
alive can mean different things to different
people.
To some,
it's sewing a baby quilt for a new life about to
be born.
To
others, it's singing, or walking, or
running.
Still
others find it in the exhilaration of skiing, or
the tropical splendor they find when scuba
diving.
Each of
us has our own favorite activity that lets us
feel our creativity and vitality, that lets us
feel a part of the larger world.
Two
gifts these activities leave us with are joy and
energy.
Joy is
one of the most creative forces we can call on,
and energy gives us the power to do it
well.
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Jealousy is
cruel as the grave.
-- Song of
Solomon
Most
bushes and small trees need trimming every year.
They have branches that hang out over the
sidewalk and get in people's way.
Sometimes
the branches grow so long and low to the ground
that the tree looks weighted down.
Jealousy
is like an overgrown branch -- it weighs us
down.
It is
one of those feelings all of us deal with.
We may
be jealous of someone's looks or talent, or
maybe even their good luck.
Like the
overgrown branches, jealousy sticks out all over
and gets in other people's way as well as our
own.
It is a
part of us we need to keep cutting back.
If we
are good gardeners, we will get out the
clippers.
Seeing
and talking about our jealousy is the best way
to start using those clippers.
If we do
this, our own leaves will be healthier, and our
blossoms will grow.
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