I came
into this world, not chiefly to make this
a good
place to live in, but to live in it, be it
good or bad.
-- H.
D. Thoreau
To live is to
open ourselves to possibility, to rule out
nothing. There is no way we can spare ourselves,
or those we love, the pains of living,
because they are inseparable from the joys.
How grandiose we
are when we think we can save the world.
All we can do --
and it's quite a lot -- is to live the best way
we can, achieving a balance amid the forces that
pull on us: pleasure, responsibility, power,
love.
If we can live
so that we respond to all of them, rule out none
of them and yet enslave ourselves to none, we
will have the best the world can give.
One quality all
great people seem to share is humor -- the
capacity to see our struggles and triumphs with
detachment.
Not that our
life is unimportant, but that it's only a part
of the huge web of life on this planet.
If we can keep
our lives in balance, we won't get puffed up by
any little triumph, or squashed by a defeat.
We'll keep on
with our lives, confident that we're doing our
best.
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